Our story

It all started in the city where all the greatest stories start: London! Fran came there in 2020 as an ambitious PhD student ready to do something meaningful in the world of biology. Joe moved there two years later as a bright-eyed master’s student with a mission to change the world itself. We both arrived in the UK with a handful of suitcases, all our friends and family left back home, but a dream of building something in this new place that was uniquely our own. And as fate would have it, our dreams would soon become a shared reality.
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Since we were also of an age where our hearts desired companionship and true emotional connection, we decided to meet people the good ol’ fashioned way... by downloading Tinder. Fran reached out first, and after 8 or so messages, we met each other for the first time at The Cocktail Trading Co. in Shoreditch. We talked and talked for hours, and we’ve been inseparable ever since that night.
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Over the past three years, our relationship has been the adventure of a lifetime. We’ve traveled the world, sampled London’s tastiest restaurants, seen the most exciting shows and concerts, and even moved into our first place together. We’ve not only met each other’s family and friends; we’ve each accepted them as our own family and friends.​
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Our engagement started during our trip to Paris when Fran took Joe to a quiet corner of the Gardens of Versailles and dropped down on one knee. Joe of course said, “Of course!”. But little did Fran know that Joe had a proposal of his own planned on a gondola in Venice just one month later! The best part is that we didn’t have to wait too long afterwards to celebrate. On the 14th June 2025, we officially sealed the deal with our Civil Partnership in Shadwell, the neighbourhood where Fran lived when we first met and where we made our earliest memories together.​
Now, we are thrilled to celebrate our love story with all of you in the place that we both agree is the real city of love: Madrid!
A few highlights from our relationship

14th December 2022
Joe asks Fran to be his boyfriend, just in time for Fran's birthday and Christmas!

12th February 2023
Fran starts to experience American culture by watching his first Super Bowl Even Rihanna was there for the occasion!

6th May 2023
Joe and Fran celebrate King Charles's coronation in proper British fashion: pints, pies, and pals at the pub!

11th June 2023
Joe meets Fran's family for the first time in Madrid, and he quickly falls in love with Spanish people, food, and culture. No surprises there!

13th December 2023
Joe celebrates his graduation from his master's at the London School of Economics.

2nd March 2024
Joe and Fran take a trip to Barcelona, Spain to visit friends Ana and Jesús!

25th July 2024
Fran celebrates his PhD graduation from Queen Mary University of London. Almost one year later after he defended his thesis!

28th November 2024
Fran has his first Thanksgiving celebration. Sadly we couldn't make it to the USA, but we made the most of it in London and were joined by friends Fátima and Andrés.

25th February 2025
Joe and Fran officially give notice to the UK government of their civil partnership.

25th April 2025
Fran proposed to Joe in the gorgeous Gardens of Versailles in France.

14th June 2025
Fran and Joe officially seal the deal with their Civil Partnership in London.

13th October 2022
Fran and Joe's first date at The Cocktail Trading Co. near Shoreditch, in East London. You can see where we sat in the picture: in the corner near the glass panel!

25th January 2023
Fran publishes his first article in Nature, so Joe takes him for a celebratory dinner at a seafood restaurant in the south bank.

9th March 2023
A trip to the ballet with friends Hannah, Fátima, and Andrés. One of the first times friends from both Joe's and Fran's worlds came together, forming a beautiful community.

3rd June 2023
Our first vacation together: visiting friends in sunny Brighton.

16th July 2023
Fran meets Joe's family for the first time in Greensboro, just in time for our nephew baby Conor Hogan's baptism.

10th February 2024
Fran and Joe's trip to Budapest, Hungary.

20th July 2024
Joe and Fran make it to North Carolina in the summer to celebrate the wedding of friends Hannah and Ryan.

27th July 2024
Fran and Joe show Fran's family around London and Cambridge.

24th January 2025
Fran and Joe go back to travelling, this time to Vienna, Austria to visit friends Kero and Sonya.

1st March 2025
Fran and Joe take a weekend trip to beautiful and picturesque Bath, England, where they stop at the Jane Austen Museum!

31st May 2025
Joe proposes back to Fran along the Grand Canal of Venice, Italy.
